We know marriage to be what it is in its true sense of the purpose it express as part of the deal for humans to pair up as adult male and female for completeness and reproductive purposes while the human nature made it to take a different dimension as those in marriages disregard its natural nature and carve themselves into comparing it from what one expresses into what the other express with total disagreement to individual differences as a matter of concern while living within the vibes as we spend our entire existence with those we love in our relationships.
People in marriages compare their marriage with those of others as a form of finding out where they have gone wrong or what they are not doing in relation to what they ought to do that they constantly feel is making their marriage become what they did not expect judging from their immediate feeling and the point of reaction they give in and out during the marriage they most importantly owned as they observe themselves float into the paths they did not bargain in expectation.
Marriage is a movement of becoming and transforming into the things that remains hidden to us before venturing into the marriage plans that made the marriage function with the ideas we put on the branches that made the standing roots and therein holds the branches that we form out of our attitude to it and how they tend to express the things we see in return.
Often times the people who are in marriages think differently of themselves as against what they know about themselves and to a point drive their personalities away from what they are into what they are not and make it difficult for themselves to remain in sound mind and at such become eminent in creating issues where there are none just because they were led wrongly based on their individual self-acclaimed thoughts with regards to their partners.
The feeling of freedom and captivity with hopeful release comes to the thoughts of those in marriage as they most often feel betrayed by their decisions to getting married upon the position of their stance following their present situational moments which thereabouts threatens their peace of mind and puts a negative establishment to the ways they see the situation they created out of mere consequential imaginations.
External forces could also make their ride inclusive in marriages that have killed their commitments and trust for one another in that it then becomes influential upon the affected which will possibly motivate a wrong perception that makes no sense because the idea came from someone or people who for obvious reasons do not belong to the marriage where they sequentially make their expressions as a normal routine.
Marriages are only for those in them and does not reflect the knowledge of those outside of it or those not included in it because marriage is felt and understood by only those in them particularly as it affects the couple such that all decisions reached remains personal, wherefore, these makes the strong hold and the main effort of marriages before every other thing resumes their affections and expressions in defining the marriage.
What people in marriages do to help themselves see that it is good to having one another play supportive roles in the home rather than complaining and rejecting the compliments of what they should give to themselves and make sure they understand the fact that no one is a slave to the other irrespective of who provides for the family which is a vital point for human survival and exchange for the needful.
Child bearing reduces the attention of couple as parents for themselves and definitely puts the couple in a position of been busy and always attending to the needs and welfare of the kids as well as work to make a living and a happy home in that these responsibilities most times tend to work the couple out in tiredness because it was not part of the initial plans for the marriage even if it remains a duty for the couple to deal with, they didn’t have that consciousness of knowing that it will hit them much the way they received it and so these alone affects the way they reason and think of themselves lately and thereby takes the both couple time to put themselves together to have it right in the way they desire to be happy again.
Happiness is a constant motivation in marriages and therefore getting it is a must have for couple to have lasting marriages hence we know this, the aim for every marriage is to make each other happy.
Once you fight to bring happiness, it makes everything in the marriage beautiful and worth being in such a way that it will unite back the commitment, understanding, trust and love and above all respect for one another as the ultimate purpose that made marriages prosper.
